One Nigerian man wey him name na Chidi Okoroafor don talk say the happiness wey dey a family dey depend on how the woman for house dey feel emotionally and mentally.
As e remember wetin him papa dey always talk when dem dey grow up, the clinician talk say the more happy wife dey inside marriage, the more peaceful and content the whole family go be.
According to am, any man wey wan enjoy better marriage suppose give him wife safe space, treat her with love and respect.
"When we dey grow, my papa dey always tell us say if the woman for house dey happy, everybody for the house go happy. But if you make am sad, that sadness go reach everybody one way or the other," na wetin he write be that.
He talk say man no fit really happy if him wife no dey happy, unless na that fake short-time happiness wey dey beer parlour or from waka waka with plenty women — and even that one get price. He still add say even pikin dey absorb happiness or sadness from their mama.
Na so I see am with my own mama, and everything begin make sense when I marry and begin born pikin.
Below na one deep truth wey I see online wey make plenty sense. Any man wey wan enjoy happy marriage suppose think am well:
"House no dey get peace if woman don tire emotionally, mentally, or financially and her husband just abandon her" — na Nigerian man talk this one.
"Men dey stay where peace dey, but na women dey create that peace — and dem only fit do am when dem dey treated with love, respect, and care.
You no fit expect woman to build peaceful home when her spirit don weak, her heart don break, and her soul no dey feel seen. Peaceful home dey start from how you dey treat the woman wey dey hold everything together."
