Actress Damilola Adegbite don drop heartfelt message give her fans, as she dey encourage people make dem get emotional sense and learn how to control demself for life. She post the video for her Instagram.
The Nollywood actress wey just clock 40 talk say e dey her mind to share one big truth wey she don learn as she dey grow — one wey fit free people from heartbreak, disappointment and wahala wey come from expecting too much.
Inside the video wey she do after she attend one event, Damilola talk say na during one phone gist with her friend she realise say the thing wey she wan talk strong wella. Na so she decide to pass the message give anybody wey need am.
According to her, one of the biggest freedom for this life na when you sabi say nobody owe you anything.
She talk say, “Sometimes, people wey you dey always show face for, no go show face for you. Sometimes, all your hard work no go even get eye. That sorry wey you dey wait for, e fit no ever come.”
She still talk say many people dey believe say because dem dey do good, good things suppose just happen to them. But life no dey work like that all the time.
She explain say, when people show you love or care, no be because dem must do am — na because dem choose to.
“Person show you love, care, attention… no be your right. Dem choose to care. Dem no dey owe you,” she talk.
Damilola come advise her followers make dem stop dey vex when people no treat dem as dem expect. Instead, she tell dem make dem look well, adjust and move on.
She end the video with one strong reminder:
“Your peace na your power. No throway am because person no fit reach your level.”
The video don cause plenty gist online, and many people dey agree with her talk and dey thank her for the reminder.

